Rethinking Church in a Divided, Searching World

While the world seems increasingly divided, a quiet but powerful hunger is growing—one for connection, meaning, and spirituality. People long to belong, to be known, and to experience authentic community. A healthy, vital church—a preferred port of call—is exactly what our culture needs right now. But for the church to meet this moment, it must rethink how it connects with its community in ways that are both relevant and deeply relational.

At its core, the church is about relationships—our relationship with Jesus and with one another inside and outside the church. Yet, in today’s postmodern, post-Christian culture, the church often finds itself anchored safely in the harbor, focusing inward. To fulfill its mission, the church must once again sail into the open seas—building new relationships beyond its walls and meeting people where they actually live, work, and seek meaning.

Mothers today crave connection, support, and a genuine voice at the leadership table. They are looking for spaces that nurture both their faith and their well-being, yet too often find the church unaware or unresponsive to these needs. Likewise, youth and young adults are remarkably open to spirituality, but many churches are missing the mark. Traditional approaches and dated programs fail to engage this generation that increasingly identifies as unchurched, yet still yearns for purpose and belonging.

The mental health crisis presents another urgent opportunity for the church. Research shows that nearly 80% of what contributes to improved mental health comes from being part of a loving, supportive community. Imagine if the church reclaimed its role as that kind of healing space—a community of care where people can find belonging, grace, and hope.

Then there are the “Nones”—those who claim no religious affiliation. They represent a large and growing segment of our population, and most are not anti-spiritual. They are simply looking for authentic expressions of faith and community that make sense in their world. To reach them, the church must move beyond outdated models and rediscover how to build genuine spiritual connection in fresh, creative ways.

Jesus called us to love our neighbors. Yet, too often the church has become insular, more focused on preserving its own existence than engaging its neighborhood. To live fully as disciples, we must turn outward again—valuing people over programs, relationships over rituals, and love over institutional survival.

The world is longing for what the church, at its best, can offer: authentic relationships, compassionate community, and transforming love. It’s time to set sail again—beyond the safety of the harbor walls and into the open seas where people are waiting to connect, to heal, and to belong.

Offered here are themes and excerpts from our book, Becoming the Church People Choose: Charting New Church Courses for Relationships, Discipleship, & Leadership that will be released on March 5, 2026, but you can preorder your copies now.