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Leadership Lessons from Patrick Mahomes

January 26, 20213 min read

As a big Kansas City Chiefs fan, I am thrilled to see them head back to the Super Bowl again this year.  Even amidst a pandemic, the buzz in the city is palpable and exciting!  In the past few years, we have had a good run with both the Royals and the Chiefs.

As I reflect over the past few years in my professional life, I can recall countless conversations, issues, and problem-solving sessions fitting into the general topic of leadership.  Particularly in the church world, we are often plagued with our limited leadership capacity.  Oh, how often our leadership capacity has stunted our ability, boldness, fruitfulness, and endurance to be the church God created us to be.  So, for an organization like the church, what could the on-the-field leader of the Chiefs, Quarterback Patrick Mahomes, teach us about leadership?  This 25-year-old NFL superstar can certainly show us a few things about being a leader who is followed!

Humbled Confidence

With all that has happened to Mahomes at such an early age, he could have certainly lost his humbleness in the midst of his rise to fame.  Yet, this young man demonstrates what Phil Schroeder and I coined as humbled confidence in our book, Launching Leaders.  While he leads with assurance, he is also very unassuming.  Patrick is the first to lift up his teammates in interviews, the first to congratulate them on and off the field, and seems authentically grateful for his team, coaches, the Chiefs organization, and his fans.

Cheerleader & Motivator

Whether it is pre-game, post-game, between plays on the field, or on the sidelines during a game, Mahomes is consistently “coaching” his team.  He is not afraid to take advantage of teaching moments, but is also right there to offer “atta” boys and firing his team up to give it their all.  During the final minutes of the AFC Playoff Game, it got a bit contentious with three fouls called on the Bills and one on the Chiefs as emotions were running high.  On the sidelines at the moment, Patrick was seen urging team mates and coaches alike back to the side lines and helping tamp down the high emotions so costly mistakes and injuries could be avoided.  He could have easily been sucked into the emotional whirlwind spiraling out of control, yet this young leader kept a cool head and lead others to do the same.

Flexible and Adaptable

Patrick is known for his ability to move about in the pocket, run with the ball, and throw the ball from some pretty amazing angles.  He has a keen eye allowing him to survey the whole field, anticipating movement, and adapting plays on the fly.  His flexibility and adaptability have certainly given the team the advantage in winning games and ultimately championships.

Of course, these are not the only leadership traits Mahomes routinely models, but they are certainly the ones I believe have been pivotal in his personal success and the success of the Chiefs organization.  I wonder, how would the landscape of the church change if we, too, had leaders who had leadership strengths of humbled confidence, cheerleader/motivator, and flexibility/adaptability?  I believe this young leader could teach us a thing or two if we were open to leading in a new way in this new day to create a new way of being the church in this new culture.

Kay’s purpose is to Equip and Empower Leaders of Faith Communities How to Engage in More Effective Ministry.
Kay Kotan is the founder of You Unlimited (coaching, consulting and training company) and The Greatest Expedition – a collaboration of more than twenty thought leaders providing resources and insights for a congregational journey to develop new MAPS (ministry action plans) to reach new people in your community.  Kay also launched Multipliers’ Movement – a gathering of kingdom multipliers for sharing, equipping, and encouraging.
She is a CoachU and Advanced CoachU Graduate, an accredited coach (PCC: Professional Certified Coach) with the ICF, International Coaching Federation, a Certified Path 1 Coach, and once served on the faculty at Coaching4Clergy.  As a passionate lay person, she has a banking background and has been a business owner for more than 25 years.  Kotan has served as a church developer for conferences and worked with churches, pastors, conferences, and judicatory leaders across the country for more than a decade.  She is most proud to be the wife of Bob for over 30 years and the mother of their adult son, Cameron.
Kay is the author of multiple books, workbooks, and resources including Gear Up:  Nine Essential Processes for the Optimized Church, Cry From the Pew, Full Schedules, Barren Souls, Being the Church in the Post Pandemic World, and Journey Preparation: Surveying Your Church’s Landscape,  as well as the co-author of the books titled:  IMPACT!:  Reclaiming the Call of Lay Ministry, Small Church Check-Up, Insights on Productivity, Renovate or Die – Ten Ways to Focus Your Church on Mission, Ministry 3.0 and Get Their Name , Ten Prescriptions for a Healthy Church, Necessary Nine – Nine Things Effective Pastors Do Differently, Launching Leaders:  Taking Leadership Development to New Heights, Strategy Matters:  Your Roadmap to Planning a Strategic Ministry Planning Retreat, Voices of Christmas: A Daily Devotional for Advent and Expanding the Expedition Reach Through Marketplace Multipliers. Mission Possible for the Small Church. Inside Out: Everting Ministry Models for the Postmodern Church, and more. Kotan and her co-author Bradford published their third version of the best-seller, Mission Possible:  Simple Structure for Missional Effectiveness.  

Mrs. Kotan spends her time investing in pastors, laity leaders, congregations, and judicatory leaders through equipping, coaching, and creating resources to help them discover and live into their fullest missional potential of effectiveness and fruitfulness to reach people for Jesus Christ.  Through her enthusiasm, truth-telling, and passion, she challenges those who encounter her in both their thinking and their doing.

Kay Kotan

Kay’s purpose is to Equip and Empower Leaders of Faith Communities How to Engage in More Effective Ministry. Kay Kotan is the founder of You Unlimited (coaching, consulting and training company) and The Greatest Expedition – a collaboration of more than twenty thought leaders providing resources and insights for a congregational journey to develop new MAPS (ministry action plans) to reach new people in your community.  Kay also launched Multipliers’ Movement – a gathering of kingdom multipliers for sharing, equipping, and encouraging. She is a CoachU and Advanced CoachU Graduate, an accredited coach (PCC: Professional Certified Coach) with the ICF, International Coaching Federation, a Certified Path 1 Coach, and once served on the faculty at Coaching4Clergy. As a passionate lay person, she has a banking background and has been a business owner for more than 25 years. Kotan has served as a church developer for conferences and worked with churches, pastors, conferences, and judicatory leaders across the country for more than a decade. She is most proud to be the wife of Bob for over 30 years and the mother of their adult son, Cameron. Kay is the author of multiple books, workbooks, and resources including Gear Up: Nine Essential Processes for the Optimized Church, Cry From the Pew, Full Schedules, Barren Souls, Being the Church in the Post Pandemic World, and Journey Preparation: Surveying Your Church’s Landscape, as well as the co-author of the books titled: IMPACT!: Reclaiming the Call of Lay Ministry, Small Church Check-Up, Insights on Productivity, Renovate or Die – Ten Ways to Focus Your Church on Mission, Ministry 3.0 and Get Their Name , Ten Prescriptions for a Healthy Church, Necessary Nine – Nine Things Effective Pastors Do Differently, Launching Leaders: Taking Leadership Development to New Heights, Strategy Matters: Your Roadmap to Planning a Strategic Ministry Planning Retreat, Voices of Christmas: A Daily Devotional for Advent and Expanding the Expedition Reach Through Marketplace Multipliers. Mission Possible for the Small Church. Inside Out: Everting Ministry Models for the Postmodern Church, and more. Kotan and her co-author Bradford published their third version of the best-seller, Mission Possible: Simple Structure for Missional Effectiveness. Mrs. Kotan spends her time investing in pastors, laity leaders, congregations, and judicatory leaders through equipping, coaching, and creating resources to help them discover and live into their fullest missional potential of effectiveness and fruitfulness to reach people for Jesus Christ. Through her enthusiasm, truth-telling, and passion, she challenges those who encounter her in both their thinking and their doing.

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