leadership covenant

Powerful Insights and Reasons to Make the Case for a Leadership Covenant

January 21, 20243 min read

As leaders, we are often task-driven. We are ready to get down to business. There is an agenda before us and a timeline to meet. As leaders, we are expected to get things done and often have driven, achiever personalities. In our rush to “do,” we often skip one important beginning step.  We don’t always have a conversation and agreement on how we will do our work together, what expectations we have of one another, and how we will hold ourselves accountable. While setting our task list aside for this foundational work may feel uncomfortable at first, it will save monumental amounts of time down the road. 

In working with leadership boards (particularly with boards/teams practicing accountable leadership), I offer these reasons and insights for your leadership boards, staff teams, and ministry teams to consider as a case for considering leadership covenants:

  • A covenant provides clear and specific expectations of team members’ responsibilities and authority (i.e., attendance, engagement, preparedness, phone etiquette, etc.).

  • The covenant outlines what leadership qualities are expected and will be modeled for the congregation (i.e., specifics around prayers, presence, gifts, service, and witness).

  • A leadership covenant states expectations pertaining to confidentiality (sharing with no one means no one including a spouse or family member) to avoid any confusion.  Remember, a spouse or family member is not bound by the covenant, so once it leaves the lips of the team member the covenant is broken.

  • The covenant identifies who and how to hold one another accountable to the terms and agreements outlined in the covenant as well as repercussions for not following the covenant.  

  • The covenant states how conflict will be handled (i.e.,as outlined in Matthew 18).

  • It is recommended that the covenant provide expectations on how leaders are to engage in difficult conversations. For example, leaders are expected to invest in transparent, honest conversations with vulnerability and openness. If leaders are not willing to have these conversations at the table and instead have them in the parking lot, the team will not be unified or be able to move forward in a way that is effective and trusting of one another.

  • Once a team/board decision is made, all members will fully support the team’s decisions regardless of their personal thoughts or feelings on the topic. A unified leadership voice is critical for the team and the church.

  • Leaders are expected to fully support and uphold the mission, vision, and core values of the church through their decisions, actions, words, and how they align the use of the church’s resources. If leaders can’t commit to this covenant, they should not be serving as leaders.

  • Triangulation should not be tolerated at any level. Rather, transparency with the full team should be practiced. Triangulation is an unhealthy leadership trait and will divert the team from its purpose.

  • Team/boards need to review and make any recommendations and edits to their covenant at least annually as new members roll on and off.  If it is simply a cut and paste exercise every year, the covenant becomes meaningless. I also recommend that members physically sign the covenant each year as a witness to their commitment and understanding of the covenant. The signed covenant then becomes a part of the digital packet for leadership boards to review ahead of their meetings as an on-going reminder of how they have agreed to do their work together.

For more information or assistance on creating leadership covenants, check out the book, Mission Possible: A Simple Structure for Missional Effectiveness where you’ll find covenant examples and more information.

Kay’s purpose is to Equip and Empower Leaders of Faith Communities How to Engage in More Effective Ministry.
Kay Kotan is the founder of You Unlimited (coaching, consulting and training company) and The Greatest Expedition – a collaboration of more than twenty thought leaders providing resources and insights for a congregational journey to develop new MAPS (ministry action plans) to reach new people in your community.  Kay also launched Multipliers’ Movement – a gathering of kingdom multipliers for sharing, equipping, and encouraging.
She is a CoachU and Advanced CoachU Graduate, an accredited coach (PCC: Professional Certified Coach) with the ICF, International Coaching Federation, a Certified Path 1 Coach, and once served on the faculty at Coaching4Clergy.  As a passionate lay person, she has a banking background and has been a business owner for more than 25 years.  Kotan has served as a church developer for conferences and worked with churches, pastors, conferences, and judicatory leaders across the country for more than a decade.  She is most proud to be the wife of Bob for over 30 years and the mother of their adult son, Cameron.
Kay is the author of multiple books, workbooks, and resources including Gear Up:  Nine Essential Processes for the Optimized Church, Cry From the Pew, Full Schedules, Barren Souls, Being the Church in the Post Pandemic World, and Journey Preparation: Surveying Your Church’s Landscape,  as well as the co-author of the books titled:  IMPACT!:  Reclaiming the Call of Lay Ministry, Small Church Check-Up, Insights on Productivity, Renovate or Die – Ten Ways to Focus Your Church on Mission, Ministry 3.0 and Get Their Name , Ten Prescriptions for a Healthy Church, Necessary Nine – Nine Things Effective Pastors Do Differently, Launching Leaders:  Taking Leadership Development to New Heights, Strategy Matters:  Your Roadmap to Planning a Strategic Ministry Planning Retreat, Voices of Christmas: A Daily Devotional for Advent and Expanding the Expedition Reach Through Marketplace Multipliers. Mission Possible for the Small Church. Inside Out: Everting Ministry Models for the Postmodern Church, and more. Kotan and her co-author Bradford published their third version of the best-seller, Mission Possible:  Simple Structure for Missional Effectiveness.  

Mrs. Kotan spends her time investing in pastors, laity leaders, congregations, and judicatory leaders through equipping, coaching, and creating resources to help them discover and live into their fullest missional potential of effectiveness and fruitfulness to reach people for Jesus Christ.  Through her enthusiasm, truth-telling, and passion, she challenges those who encounter her in both their thinking and their doing.

Kay Kotan

Kay’s purpose is to Equip and Empower Leaders of Faith Communities How to Engage in More Effective Ministry. Kay Kotan is the founder of You Unlimited (coaching, consulting and training company) and The Greatest Expedition – a collaboration of more than twenty thought leaders providing resources and insights for a congregational journey to develop new MAPS (ministry action plans) to reach new people in your community.  Kay also launched Multipliers’ Movement – a gathering of kingdom multipliers for sharing, equipping, and encouraging. She is a CoachU and Advanced CoachU Graduate, an accredited coach (PCC: Professional Certified Coach) with the ICF, International Coaching Federation, a Certified Path 1 Coach, and once served on the faculty at Coaching4Clergy. As a passionate lay person, she has a banking background and has been a business owner for more than 25 years. Kotan has served as a church developer for conferences and worked with churches, pastors, conferences, and judicatory leaders across the country for more than a decade. She is most proud to be the wife of Bob for over 30 years and the mother of their adult son, Cameron. Kay is the author of multiple books, workbooks, and resources including Gear Up: Nine Essential Processes for the Optimized Church, Cry From the Pew, Full Schedules, Barren Souls, Being the Church in the Post Pandemic World, and Journey Preparation: Surveying Your Church’s Landscape, as well as the co-author of the books titled: IMPACT!: Reclaiming the Call of Lay Ministry, Small Church Check-Up, Insights on Productivity, Renovate or Die – Ten Ways to Focus Your Church on Mission, Ministry 3.0 and Get Their Name , Ten Prescriptions for a Healthy Church, Necessary Nine – Nine Things Effective Pastors Do Differently, Launching Leaders: Taking Leadership Development to New Heights, Strategy Matters: Your Roadmap to Planning a Strategic Ministry Planning Retreat, Voices of Christmas: A Daily Devotional for Advent and Expanding the Expedition Reach Through Marketplace Multipliers. Mission Possible for the Small Church. Inside Out: Everting Ministry Models for the Postmodern Church, and more. Kotan and her co-author Bradford published their third version of the best-seller, Mission Possible: Simple Structure for Missional Effectiveness. Mrs. Kotan spends her time investing in pastors, laity leaders, congregations, and judicatory leaders through equipping, coaching, and creating resources to help them discover and live into their fullest missional potential of effectiveness and fruitfulness to reach people for Jesus Christ. Through her enthusiasm, truth-telling, and passion, she challenges those who encounter her in both their thinking and their doing.

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