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Five Common Markers of Effective Discipling Faith Communities

June 11, 20243 min read

Every church has the same exact purpose for its existence – to form disciples who become disciple makers that transform the world. Yet, no two churches are the same. There are, however, some common markers of those faith communities who are more effective in discipling people who in turn become disciple makers.  Let’s take a closer look at some of those common markers.

First and foremost, faith communities who are most effective in disciple making and the multiplication of disciples have an intentional discipleship pathway. There is a common understanding, language, and progression for people in the faith community to comprehend and easily follow for how to grow in their faith and relationship with Christ. There is a common purpose and expectation for growth as a disciple.

Second, there is intentional alignment of the ministries, events, sermons, small groups, and service opportunities to the discipleship pathway. This alignment is in the language used by the pastor, staff and ministry leaders, the next steps in discipleship maturation, and a connection of the offerings to the discipleship pathway.

Third, the overall culture of the faith community is centered on discipleship. Discipleship is helping people grow in their Christ-likeness and living it out in their daily lives. The culture of discipleship is less about membership and more about meeting people where they are and helping them develop a disciple’s lifestyle. It is a much more holistic approach that is less about the church and more about discipleship. Discipleship is relationally-driven rather than corporately driven.

Fourth, there is likely more emphasis on small groups than corporate worship. There is a growing trend of seeing more emphasis placed on helping people find authentic community where they feel comfortable having spiritual conversations. This community of people sometimes grows into a discipling community. This seems to be a more effective approach especially for those who are spiritually open but have no church experience or have some church hurt. Many people desire more of an interactive, experiential approach to exploring their faith rather than an observer approach. Therefore, some faith communities may gather for worship less frequently (i.e. monthly) and invest more resources in building relationships with new people and helping people find community.

Fifth, effective discipling faith communities are growing. Healthy organisms and organizations grow. In our current divisive culture with a mental health crisis, people are looking for lifelines, support, safe places to connect, meaning, and purpose. For many, the church, in its traditional sense, is no longer seen as that natural safe place or third place where people used to gravitate to when they were looking for help. Effective discipling faith communities are growing because they are meeting people where they are. They are willing to adapt and change their methods of how they disciple people while not diminishing the message of the Good News. They shift as needed to remain contextually relevant and relatable.  They hold tightly to Biblical truth, but loosely to their current methods, traditions, and ministries.

How many of these five markers are present in your faith community? Which ones might your church be willing to adopt? Which ones might your church want to improve?  What’s your first step to move towards a more effective discipling faith community today?

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Kay Kotan

Kay’s purpose is to Equip and Empower Leaders of Faith Communities How to Engage in More Effective Ministry. Kay Kotan is the founder of You Unlimited (coaching, consulting and training company) and The Greatest Expedition – a collaboration of more than twenty thought leaders providing resources and insights for a congregational journey to develop new MAPS (ministry action plans) to reach new people in your community.  Kay also launched Multipliers’ Movement – a gathering of kingdom multipliers for sharing, equipping, and encouraging. She is a CoachU and Advanced CoachU Graduate, an accredited coach (PCC: Professional Certified Coach) with the ICF, International Coaching Federation, a Certified Path 1 Coach, and once served on the faculty at Coaching4Clergy. As a passionate lay person, she has a banking background and has been a business owner for more than 25 years. Kotan has served as a church developer for conferences and worked with churches, pastors, conferences, and judicatory leaders across the country for more than a decade. She is most proud to be the wife of Bob for over 30 years and the mother of their adult son, Cameron. Kay is the author of multiple books, workbooks, and resources including Gear Up: Nine Essential Processes for the Optimized Church, Cry From the Pew, Full Schedules, Barren Souls, Being the Church in the Post Pandemic World, and Journey Preparation: Surveying Your Church’s Landscape, as well as the co-author of the books titled: IMPACT!: Reclaiming the Call of Lay Ministry, Small Church Check-Up, Insights on Productivity, Renovate or Die – Ten Ways to Focus Your Church on Mission, Ministry 3.0 and Get Their Name , Ten Prescriptions for a Healthy Church, Necessary Nine – Nine Things Effective Pastors Do Differently, Launching Leaders: Taking Leadership Development to New Heights, Strategy Matters: Your Roadmap to Planning a Strategic Ministry Planning Retreat, Voices of Christmas: A Daily Devotional for Advent and Expanding the Expedition Reach Through Marketplace Multipliers. Mission Possible for the Small Church. Inside Out: Everting Ministry Models for the Postmodern Church, and more. Kotan and her co-author Bradford published their third version of the best-seller, Mission Possible: Simple Structure for Missional Effectiveness. Mrs. Kotan spends her time investing in pastors, laity leaders, congregations, and judicatory leaders through equipping, coaching, and creating resources to help them discover and live into their fullest missional potential of effectiveness and fruitfulness to reach people for Jesus Christ. Through her enthusiasm, truth-telling, and passion, she challenges those who encounter her in both their thinking and their doing.

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