Title doesn't equal leadership

More Than a Title: Genuine Leadership for Pastors and Ministers

October 28, 20252 min read

A thought-provoking graphic by Justin Wright cuts to the heart of leadership with a simple message: "Your title doesn't make you a leader." This holds profound truth, especially for those holding titles like Pastor or Minister. While these titles denote a specific role and spiritual responsibility within a community, they unfortunately don't automatically confer true leadership influence in today’s culture.

Wright's graphic illustrates that genuine leadership stems not from a designation, but from tangible qualities and actions. It highlights these key elements as true leadership qualities and actions: Your Actions, Attitude, Behavior, Drive, Empathy, Example, and Integrity. These aren't just abstract concepts; they are the building blocks that, when consistently demonstrated, earn the crucial eighth element: Your Team's (and organization’s) Respect.

Applying this to pastoral and ministerial roles is straightforward. Having the title of  Pastor or Minister does not make one a leader. Leadership is forged through:

  • Consistent Actions: How one faithfully teaches, serves, counsels, and cares for their congregation.

  • Christ-like Attitude & Behavior: Demonstrating humility, grace, patience, and living ethically according to the principles they preach.

  • Passionate Drive: A genuine commitment to the spiritual well-being and growth of their community.

  • Deep Empathy: Understanding and compassionately responding to the diverse joys, struggles, and needs within their congregation and community.

  • Living Example: Modeling the faith they proclaim in their daily lives ("walking the talk").

  • Unwavering Integrity: Being trustworthy, honest, and morally upright in all dealings.

When these qualities are present, a Pastor or Minister earns the respect and trust of their congregation. This respect is the foundation upon which effective spiritual leadership is built. It allows their guidance to be received, their care to be impactful, and their vision to inspire.

Ultimately, the titles "Pastor" and "Minister" signify a sacred calling and role. But true leadership within that role, as Wright's graphic reminds us, is earned through character and conduct. It flows from who the leader is and what they do, culminating in the earned respect that empowers their ministry.


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Kay Kotan

Kay’s purpose is to Equip and Empower Leaders of Faith Communities How to Engage in More Effective Ministry. Th Founder of You Unlimited and The Greatest Expedition. Kay also launched Multipliers’ Movement. She is a CoachU and Advanced CoachU Graduate, an accredited coach (PCC: Professional Certified Coach) with the ICF, International Coaching Federation, a Certified Path 1 Coach, a TQ (Transitional Intelligence) Certified Coach, and once served on the faculty at Coaching4Clergy. See the full bio in the link below

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