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The One Unique Advantage Small Churches Have on Large Churches

July 23, 20242 min read

How many times have you heard a small church leader talk about some sort of resource they wished they had that larger churches might have? We often focus on what we can’t do or don’t have rather than concentrating on our strengths and gifts. What if instead small church leaders began to explore and celebrate the unique advantages and gifts small churches can offer that larger churches simply can’t. What a paradigm shift and gift that could be for leaders and well as small church congregations!

If a guest visits a small church, the guest will most likely be recognized as a guest and welcomed graciously. If that same guest were to visit a large church, the guest could go unnoticed. It is common for not everyone to know one another at a larger church. No one wants to call out a person as a guest only to learn that they typically attend another worship service. Or another common phenomenon in large churches is for regular attenders to believe that the guest has already been greeted by others and/or the hospitality team and therefore don’t feel compelled to greet (or perhaps overwhelm) the guest. For these reasons and more, building relationships is more difficult in larger churches.

Relationships are a small churches’ superpower! In the book, Mission Possible for the Small Church: Simplifying Leadership, Structure, and Ministries in Small Churches, authors Kotan and Bradford describe this relationship superpower:

“In small congregations, everyone knows your name. This is a place for all to feel known. A new person will not attend this church and go unnoticed. Children are loved and nurtured by the whole congregation and afforded opportunities to participate in the church in ways that children in larger churches may not because they are stuck in the “youth annex.””

How is your small church building on its superpower of relationships? What other strengths and resources does your small church have? How are you leveraging your superpowers and strengths to reach more people and for deeper Kingdom impact?

To identify more resource opportunities, explore other strengths, discover best practices, and learn more about how to simplify leadership, structure, and ministries in small churches, pick up a copy of Mission Possible for the Small Church.  Join us at the Small Church Gathering in your area to dive deep into this topic and more learning opportunities designed with the small church in mind!

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Kay Kotan

Kay’s purpose is to Equip and Empower Leaders of Faith Communities How to Engage in More Effective Ministry. Kay Kotan is the founder of You Unlimited (coaching, consulting and training company) and The Greatest Expedition – a collaboration of more than twenty thought leaders providing resources and insights for a congregational journey to develop new MAPS (ministry action plans) to reach new people in your community.  Kay also launched Multipliers’ Movement – a gathering of kingdom multipliers for sharing, equipping, and encouraging. She is a CoachU and Advanced CoachU Graduate, an accredited coach (PCC: Professional Certified Coach) with the ICF, International Coaching Federation, a Certified Path 1 Coach, and once served on the faculty at Coaching4Clergy. As a passionate lay person, she has a banking background and has been a business owner for more than 25 years. Kotan has served as a church developer for conferences and worked with churches, pastors, conferences, and judicatory leaders across the country for more than a decade. She is most proud to be the wife of Bob for over 30 years and the mother of their adult son, Cameron. Kay is the author of multiple books, workbooks, and resources including Gear Up: Nine Essential Processes for the Optimized Church, Cry From the Pew, Full Schedules, Barren Souls, Being the Church in the Post Pandemic World, and Journey Preparation: Surveying Your Church’s Landscape, as well as the co-author of the books titled: IMPACT!: Reclaiming the Call of Lay Ministry, Small Church Check-Up, Insights on Productivity, Renovate or Die – Ten Ways to Focus Your Church on Mission, Ministry 3.0 and Get Their Name , Ten Prescriptions for a Healthy Church, Necessary Nine – Nine Things Effective Pastors Do Differently, Launching Leaders: Taking Leadership Development to New Heights, Strategy Matters: Your Roadmap to Planning a Strategic Ministry Planning Retreat, Voices of Christmas: A Daily Devotional for Advent and Expanding the Expedition Reach Through Marketplace Multipliers. Mission Possible for the Small Church. Inside Out: Everting Ministry Models for the Postmodern Church, and more. Kotan and her co-author Bradford published their third version of the best-seller, Mission Possible: Simple Structure for Missional Effectiveness. Mrs. Kotan spends her time investing in pastors, laity leaders, congregations, and judicatory leaders through equipping, coaching, and creating resources to help them discover and live into their fullest missional potential of effectiveness and fruitfulness to reach people for Jesus Christ. Through her enthusiasm, truth-telling, and passion, she challenges those who encounter her in both their thinking and their doing.

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